Guilty Pleaser, Self-Rationalization in Unhealthy Behavior

'Stress is the source of the panacea.' Life without a stress is practically impossible, but it is necessary to reduce stress. So we have time to relax and heal through hobbies.

By the way, the number of people who have a little odd (?) Hobby starting with young people is increasing, and it becomes social problem. It is called 'guilty pleasure' by name.

Guilty Pleasure means an act of pleasure that you know you should not do. It can be said that it means pleasure which is not as clear as the meaning of English, but the sense of guilt here is rather a moral meaning rather than a childish or embarrassing sense of fear of being heard by others.

In other words, it is the negative emotion that comes from not being able to have confidence in one's hobbies or preferences because of the social wisdom that shows high and maturity.

 

I recently saw a strange man in an elevator. The 20th floor building, the elevator filled with people to go to work, had buttons on each floor from the 3rd floor. It was true that the pressures were pressed every day on that day, but it could be because it was time for the work. But the strange man is pushing all the buttons on the floor again except for his 20th floor. People who had not seen it on their cell phones found it was not until the 20th floor that they had to get off the floor. Though I thought it was strange, I pressed down on my floor again. And the man laughed and left the elevator.

This is what I actually witnessed a while ago, and I have seen a few colleagues here since.

Act like this person. It can be called Guilty Pleasure. Feeling the pleasures of the moment, it is acting in a way that can not be said to be strange or strange in sociological conventionalism. The problem is that more and more young people are doing this.

Employment stress, new stress, as well as supervisors in the middle of your boss and your successor, students studying, and people who do a heavy diet. I am relieving myself of my stress with Guilty Pleasure.

We are living in a competitive society. It can be said that the social structure that makes it unbearable in the times when it has been considered virtue to be tolerated is expressed in a slightly discrete way. Stress-relieving behavior is essential. But the method should be healthy and in the right form.

Guilty pleser should not be rationalized. I will have to reflect on how much justification can be justified to harm others to relieve my stress, and the behavior that comes from the most selfish thoughts.